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Don’t Wait Until It Hurts to Start Listening

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Your body has been trying to talk to you for years. Have you been listening?


There’s a funny thing about the human body—it’s a terrible liar, but a very patient communicator.

First, it whispers: a little tightness here, some bloating there. You ignore it.
Then it nudges: recurring tension, that weird fatigue, the joint that always feels “off.” Still, you push through.
Eventually, it starts yelling: full-blown pain, chronic inflammation, anxiety that keeps you up at night, and a metabolism that’s running on fumes.

And by the time most people walk into my treatment room, they say the same thing:
"I should’ve done something sooner."

We’ve Been Trained to Wait for the Red Flags

Modern culture doesn’t exactly reward self-awareness. You’re supposed to “tough it out,” “push through,” and “just get on with it.” Rest is lazy. Complaining is weakness. And heaven forbid you opt out of the grind to focus on healing—what are you, made of time?

We don’t schedule tune-ups—we wait for breakdowns.

But here’s what no one tells you: health isn’t something you recover—it’s something you maintain. And maintenance is a whole lot cheaper, less painful, and more empowering than crisis control.

Your Body is Always Talking—You Just Forgot the Language

Feeling tired after eating certain foods? That’s not random—it’s feedback.
Recurring headaches around your cycle? That’s not “just hormones”—it’s imbalance.
The tightness in your low back after sitting all day? That’s not “getting old”—that’s muscle compensation screaming for help.

But we’re so used to background noise, we treat dysfunction like wallpaper. It’s always there, so we stop noticing.

Except your body hasn’t stopped speaking. You’ve just stopped listening.

The Maintenance Mindset

Maintenance isn’t sexy. It doesn’t get as many likes as a transformation photo. But it’s what keeps your energy steady, your mood stable, and your life on track.

It looks like booking that acupuncture session before your neck locks up. It looks like stretching after a walk—not because you’re injured, but because you plan to keep moving freely into your 80s. It’s choosing the anti-inflammatory meal even when no one’s watching, because you’ve finally realized that clarity and energy are more rewarding than the sugar crash that follows a bread basket.

Maintenance is going to bed early—not because you’re boring, but because your body deserves to repair itself in peace. It’s saying no to that extra event, that one more obligation, that “quick favor” that you know will rob you of sleep or sanity. Not because you’re incapable—but because you’re wise enough to protect your own bandwidth now.

It’s no longer about waiting for a flare-up or a breakdown. It’s about choosing yourself, daily—not because something’s wrong, but because something’s right when you do. You don't wait to feel broken to deserve care. You do it because you're worth keeping well.

What Happens When You Start Early?

This is where the magic happens. Not the “magical thinking” kind—but the tangible, real life opens up kind.

When you start early, things don’t snowball. That tension in your shoulder doesn’t become frozen range of motion. That blood sugar spike doesn’t become prediabetes. That fatigue doesn’t turn into a full-on crash. Healing becomes easier because you’re not digging out of a hole—you’re just clearing the path ahead.

You save money, yes. You save time, absolutely. But you also preserve something much more precious: your freedom.

You get to say yes to the impromptu road trip because your body can handle the drive.
You can play with your kids or hike that mountain or dance at the wedding—not because you “powered through,” but because your baseline energy is ready for those moments.
You can enjoy an indulgence day—yes, even dessert and wine—without waking up inflamed, groggy, or ten pounds heavier by next week. Your body has resilience, because you’ve invested in it.

You can work a full day and still have fuel left to create, connect, or simply rest—without collapsing.

And most importantly, you start trusting your body again. You realize it’s not a mystery or a burden—it’s your most loyal partner. And that partnership? That’s what changes everything.

You don’t have to wait until it hurts to start healing. You don’t have to wait for the diagnosis. You don’t have to crash and burn to earn your rest.

What if—just for once—you got ahead of it?

What if you started now?


If you're not sure where to begin, I've built a few options to help you start this next chapter in a way that works for you:

  • If you want expert eyes on your current patterns and help identifying the small shifts that can make a big difference, book 1:1 coaching with me here.

  • If you prefer to go at your own pace, on your own terms, check out my courses—they're designed to walk you through practical, real-life changes step by step.

  • And if you thrive with accountability and community, join the Wellness Collective to surround yourself with like-minded people on the same path.

Everyone needs something different.
What matters most is that you take action—your way.


Keep moving, eat something green, and question anything that sounds like a quick fix.
Chow! Chow!

—Jessica